Seat your partner in a chair and give them a sexy lap dance. “When we first enter into relationships, we may find that we are too inhibited to let ourselves try something vulnerable, like a performative lap dance with our partner. But as we become more intimate and trusting, it can be easier to let go and try something new like this,” says Searah Deysach, sex educator and owner of sex shop Early to Bed. You can also flip the script and ask them to dance for you.
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